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When You Get Jealous

I know...much easier said than done. But I got to thinking and I'm curious, why do we do this? Why do we (willingly!) dig ourselves deeper and deeper into a dark black hole that only leads to lust for more more more! I need this. I want that. I want to be like her. She's got it all together- sigh.

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Knowledge is Power

You win or lose by the things you chose. And it’s no secret that the more you know, the better you position yourself to make smarter and better decisions. As a 23-year-old fresh out of college, I’m at the very beginning of my adulthood and specifically, my career. Having only a few months of real world working experience under my belt, my “status” in the corporate/professional world is essentially not…

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BLOGGING: ON GETTING DOWN IN THE DETAILS

Honesty is the best policy....right? So full disclosure here. I've been a little down in the details lately. And just as positive energy motivates and encourages, negative energy unfortunately has double the power to do just the opposite--discourage and impede. By no means do I intend to complain or be unappreciative, but sometimes it's just simply difficult to continue to focus on the positives. I know, I know...I sound like a cynical negative Nancy, but hey, we all have the right to get a little down every now and again, right?! And these thoughts/feelings are definitely having an effect on my creative juices and desire to put together a perfectly pretty and positive blog post as per usual. I hope you can understand and that you don't hold it against me or BrightonTheDay.

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BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO SAY GOODBYE

It doesn’t take long (when getting to know me), to figure out that I am quite the creature of habit. I know what I like. and I like what I like. (hey, if it ain’t broke – don’t fix it. Right?!) I typically get the same thing every time at my favorite restaurants because…well, I know I’ll like it. Plus, I usually end up craving it before I can even…

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Gratitude is Good For You

While spending time at home over the short-but-sweet thanksgiving holiday, I was able to slow down a bit and enjoy some great quality time with my family. Sometimes I forget how refreshing a little time at home can be! It was so nice to be able to take a step back from my daily routine and relatively short-term-way-of-thinking. Meaning, instead of focusing on getting “through the day” or completing any…

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Find Balance

I should print this out. 100 times. and hide a copy anywhere and everywhere I can think of because I constantly need reminding. For some reason, no matter how hard I try, I just can’t do it. Maybe I’ll be “good” for a week or so, but it’s just not in my DNA or something. Like, for lack of better words, I’m not wired to be balanced. And this is…