The Basics of Starting a Budget

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As someone who used to be in the finance & accounting field, I’m shocked it’s taken me this long to write this post. I think sometimes I forget to address the things in life that I’m decent at slash familiar with and instead focus on what I’m trying to improve.

When it comes to budgets, money, etc., I’ve always been pretty comfortable with it. It’s the part of my brain that works almost automatically and I’m not doing a ton of research on how to make myself better here. BUT, I realized that it is an area of contention for a lot of people – and hopefully some of you reading today! I actually had a lot of fun putting this together (#nerdmoment) because I’m confident here and think I have some helpful tips to share! Plus, I just love numbers (and excel!) and sort of enjoy writing about technical subjects like this. It’s my jam slash reminds me of the kind of writing I used to have to do at work (as an auditor).

The Basics of Starting a Budget – Take Inventory

Before making a spreadsheet or doing anything *fun* with your planning, you must take inventory of your income and spending. This breaks down into a few areas, so let’s go step by step.

Step 1: Collect bills

The point of this is to figure out where you’re spending your money each month. I think this is often a scary part that keeps people away from making a budget in the first place, so it’s a good place to start. They always say to get the worst task done first, so just get to it.

Since looking at your expenses for the past year can be overwhelming, start with this month’s expenses and cash flow. It will be easier to identify what are your fixed costs and what are expenses that you can expect (approximate) for the rest of the month. The point here is to bucket your expenses or areas of your life that are recurring chargers. I like to use these categories myself:

  • Groceries
  • Entertainment – basically, the things you could technically live without (dining out, Netflix, babysitters, cable!, Spotify, concerts, etc.)
  • Home essentials (toilet paper, cleaning supplies, etc.). If you get this at the grocery, you can include it there.
  • Essential bills (water, garbage, energy, home owner’s insurance, mortgage, rent, Internet (if your job counts on it) etc.)
  • Upkeep – basically anything that you do to take care of yourself or your family (hair cuts, dog groomers, massages)
  • Shopping (clothes, shoes, beauty products, etc.)
  • Withdraws – figure out where this cash is going
  • Everything else – depending on your life, you may have another category (like your business, etc) that belongs on this list, or you may be able to get rid of mine. If you’re spending money over and over on another category, add it.
  • Savings – the money you’re transferring to savings or a future investment (tangible) each month. If you’re not already doing this, your budget should help!
  • Debt – THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT. Make note of student loans, home mortgage, car payment, etc. Also, make note of the interest rates for each (this will come in handy when deciding where how much to put in every month).

Using these categorizes to organize your spending will let you look closer at where you are spending the most or least.

Step 2: Find your monthly income

For many people, you know the exact number you make every year – you have a salary. But for others, you work hourly or things change from month to month (like me). If you have a salary, look at your bank statements to determine your monthly income (what’s coming home with you after taxes, health insurance, etc). If you don’t have a regular paycheck, you’ll need to find the average of what you’ve been making. I suggest looking back over the last 6-12 months (depending if you have changes seasonally or you’ve been making more/less than a year ago), jotting down how much you made each of those months, and then averaging it out. If you’re a contractor or something along those lines, don’t forget to subtract taxes based on the time period you noted!

After you do that, you know your monthly income.

The Basics of Starting a Budget – Be Informed

In general, there are some percentages and numbers that are smart to live by when it comes to money. Again, there are MANY different opinions here, but this is just what I do and what works for me.

Step 3: Know smart stats

  • Saving 20% percent of your monthly income that includes a couple different buckets:
    • Any general saving plans
    • Any specific saving plans (for a home, etc)
    • Emergency funds (I try to create a 6-month emergency fund in case I lost my job or god forbid something crazy happened).
    • I personally contribute to my emergency fund first, then go into more general saving plans.
  • Not spending more than 25-30% on things that I want (shopping, upkeep, Netflix, etc.)
  • Not spending more than 50-55% on everything I need (my mortgage, my car payment, etc.)

The Basics of Starting a Budget – Find Your Numbers

OK so now the kinda fun part. It’s time to create a spreadsheet! For people just starting, I think the idea of manually doing everything to start is helpful. You’ll really see every single thing you’re spending on, etc., and you’ll walk yourself through the process. Then, of course, take advantage of apps or whatever you want – but more on that later.

Step 4: Plug in numbers

Make a row for each spending category, and add your monthly costs. You might even want to start batching things (like wants vs. needs now that you have a better idea of your spending habits – but don’t make any changes yet – this is the time to be honest with what you’ve been spending – we’ll make adjustments later). Then, add up ALL your spending for the month, and bold that number. This will give you your average spending amount.

In a row down below, write in your monthly income. By now, you’ll start getting an idea of how much you’re spending vs. making and what that ratio looks like.

Step 5: Use the smart stats vs. your numbers

Do the math and see if your numbers match up to the smart stats I mentioned in Step 3. If you’re like most people (me included), you’re probably spending more on either wants or needs than you should be. Maybe you’re not hitting the 20% savings mark either. That’s OK! That’s why we’re doing this.

Before making any changes, come up with a number based on the stats in Step 3 with your personal numbers. What is the dollar amount that you should be spending on wants a month? Needs? Saving? Mark those in red on your spreadsheet.

Step 6: Make adjustments

Now, it’s probably time for some changes. The math is going to be different for every person as are priorities, but in general, you’ll want to start prioritizing your spending. Here are some ideas:

If your wants are too high…

  • Consider limiting dining out to once a week, or a month.
  • Cancel cable and instead pay for Netflix and Hulu.
  • Use the free version of things like Spotify, Pandora.
  • Make coffee at home!

If your needs are too high…

  • Consider moving into a cheaper home/apartment/whatever
  • Find cheaper recipes or start growing your own food
  • Consider a side job
  • Consider paying more towards your debt with higher interest rates – you’ll be able to balance out some numbers since you’ll technically be saving more

Play around with the numbers and your priorities to see where you could start shaving off costs in either area. And don’t forget about that 20% for savings! That may need to come from your want/need section. Basically, play around with numbers until you hit the smart stats – and that is where your budget needs to stem from.

The Basics of Starting a Budget – Create a System

OK YAY! The hard part is over. You’re probably either feeling great or terrified right now, but that’s the point of a budget! To give you an idea of what you have, what you make, and what you can spend. It’s now time to create an ongoing system for your budget and some goals.

Step 7: Find a resource

This is the time to use a resource, like Mint, GoodBudget, Spendee, or something similar. These resources are great because with most of them, you can link up all your bills, spending, etc. AND anything you’re making. It does the monthly math for you. If you use an app, you can check in on your budget at any time, and it’ll even alert you when you’re going over in one category (since you can make spending goals/limits per category). Some even pay your bills for you!

OR, just stick to your excel sheet! These can sometimes be more flexible if you’re wanting to get detailed.

And remember that you have to find what works for you. Some people love taking out X amount of cash a week and having that be their allowance for all wants – there are SO many systems out there, so do your research and find tricks that work for you.

Step 8: Check in monthly

I like to do this on the last Sunday of the month, or sometime around the end of the month. It’s basically a check in with yourself and your finances. I look for and ask myself these things:

  • Do I need to adjust anything? (Maybe your salary changed, your rent changed, you decided to cancel something, etc.).
  • How am I feeling money wise? Can I add a little more to my savings at the moment? Do I need to scale back?
  • Am I prioritizing my spending?
  • Am I hitting my goals?
  • Do I still like the resource I’m using?
  • Can I automate any other bills?

And for me, this monthly check-in keeps me accountable for my budget. Without it, I might forget about it or just not stick to it as well – so this last step is one of the most important. I personally do it with a glass of wine and some music playing to make it pleasant – and it only takes about 30 minutes. 30 minutes for major peace of mind is well worth it, so I highly suggest making this part of your budget planning!

That’s about it. I hope that this general starter’s guide was helpful! If you have any other questions, of course let me know in the comments – and don’t forget about financial advisors if this wasn’t enough info.

Do y’all have any budgeting tips? Which resources do you use?


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    November 9, 2017 at 4:41 am

    This was fantastic! Please do more like this.

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    September 18, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    Killing this outfit!!!

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    Deena Schencker
    September 9, 2017 at 3:00 pm

    Brighton, you are beautiful and amazing. I love your blog and posts. I would love to see the actual spreadsheet you use (sans your personal data of course) to pass this onto my family members. I think that young people are tuned into instant gratification and do not realize how quickly avocado toast and lattes add up. Enjoy your NY trip!

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      Morgan Howard
      November 8, 2017 at 1:47 pm

      I agree! Would love to have a download of the form spreadsheet you use!

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    September 9, 2017 at 8:04 am

    So great! Don’t forget about retirement savings! The power of compounding at our age is so important!

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    September 7, 2017 at 1:12 pm

    These are such great tips! I seriously don’t think we talk about this enough and consumerism is a big problem in America. I’m dealing with my own budget as well, so I will definitely consider these tips!
    x. kritsida

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    September 7, 2017 at 11:57 am

    This is an awesome post! I got lucky and have a financial planner as a dad and finance guy turned high school teacher as a husband but this is broken down into human terms that I can understand and I LOVE it! My husband and I cut out cable and paid for higher internet and do Netflix and Amazon shows instead and love it! Not only has it saved us money but we are also more social/get outside and do more b/c we don’t sit in front of our TV screen.

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    September 7, 2017 at 7:43 am

    (1) Love this post! This is good stuff that people can use ALWAYS, if not for the first time, as a refresher or encouragement (2) your outfit is KILLING IT – love that you get to still incorporate fashion outfits into these posts! I don’t use an app – when I was single I had an Excel spreadsheet – much like your suggestion above. I’ve also done the cash in envelopes but I hate carrying cash!! Now that I’m married we have a different system, but saving is our big thing. My husband introduced me to the concept of figuring out expenses that maybe only come once a year, but budgeting for them monthly so you have the money saved (ie. Christmas presents, birthdays, house/car fixes etc.) The other thing we do is that we always act as though we have a car payment (even when we don’t). Although we don’t designate it into a separate account, each month we are saving $250 into savings specifically with the mindset of “car payment” (on top of our savings) so when the time comes and we need to purchase a new car, we’ve already got a significant amount to put as a down payment. <–I would have never thought of that and think that is brilliant!

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    September 7, 2017 at 7:32 am

    Great read! Lots of great tips on getting started and maintaining a good budget. I love that you are sharing this information with your audience. And to piggyback off of what Caryn said, I read Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey and that too was very enlightening when it came to managing our household budget.

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    September 7, 2017 at 5:41 am

    what a detailed and very usuefull guide!!! thanks so much, I took some notes that I really needed!

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    Anika May
    September 7, 2017 at 3:48 am

    This post is so helpful, definitely bookmarking to come back too! Thanks for sharing :)

    Anika xo |

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    September 7, 2017 at 3:10 am

    Such a great post! I’ve been thinking of concentrating on my budget more, so your tips come right in time ;)
    Totally in love with your outfit too!

    x Kristjaana

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    Michael @ Mile in My Glasses
    September 7, 2017 at 2:28 am

    I so appreciate this! Thanks for the great post Brighton! Budgeting is so important!

    I hope you have a great Thursday!

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    September 6, 2017 at 9:28 pm

    Amazing post, friend! It goes into great detail on steps we need to do. Two years ago, I implemented the zero budget method and it really changed things for me.

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    kate style petite
    September 6, 2017 at 9:27 pm

    Pro-tips babe! Thanks for sharing!
    xo –

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    September 6, 2017 at 7:21 pm

    Great post! I feel like there are so many young people who are baffled by budgets and its such a shame because there are so many resources out there for us. I love excel too (and more recently my quicken app 🙈), I don’t know any other 20 somethings who do though. My emergency fund has definitely come in handy in the past and I’m glad I’d budgeted for it.

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    September 6, 2017 at 5:49 pm

    This is a GREAT post, Brighton! It’s so refreshing to see an intelligent woman who knows what she’s talking about! I’d love to see something on debt–your thoughts, debt freedom, credit scores, etc.

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    September 6, 2017 at 4:38 pm

    Ditto to the previous comments – love this post and content from you. (Don’t worry I love all that you do…. this is just so relevant to me at the moment!)

    When you say 6 month emergency fund… can you go into a little more detail? I.e. If you fill the fund, do you then just leave it alone… or continue to add to it/dip into it and add later? Hope that makes sense.

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    September 6, 2017 at 3:25 pm

    I absolutely love these types of posts, Brighton! Lots of girls can put together an outfit post, but these posts with practical, apply-this-right-now knowledge are SO helpful and it’s info that we need to hear. Thanks for breaking the mold!

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    September 6, 2017 at 2:59 pm

    Great tips! Definitely going to talk to the bf about this since we have talked about getting a budget and investing in our future.

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    September 6, 2017 at 2:52 pm

    I like to check in on everything daily….otherwise too much gets away from me. I’ve found Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace program and his Every Dollar tracking app to be super helpful.

    Great post, Brighton! Perhaps do one on how compounded interest works and why saving from your 20s is something you should do.

    BTW, must ask about your glasses frames…where did you get them? So cute….love the transparent plastic. Very fresh.

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